Monday, May 21, 2012

At My Fingertips

I had my first taste of success yesterday for my new way of handling household paperwork, which just reinforces that I'm headed in the right direction.  I know I have a way to go (I only need to look at the Black Hole that is the TV room, with piles of paper and folders and file boxes everywhere), but I'm on the path.

We had family over for a cookout yesterday after the Middle Child's lacrosse game.  We were discussing home insurance with my parents and my brother, whose family is in the processing of moving back to the area after almost 22 years away (he's been in the military).  My father was asking about our homeowner's insurance... and I was able to go to a shelf, pull out the appropriate binder, and hand him our policy.  When we were done, I was able to return it to its appropriate place.  No digging, no searching - it was some place easily accessible and available.

What's your "ah-hah" moment, when you knew your system was working for you?

Sunday, May 20, 2012

Motivation


What gets you motivated to organize, to declutter, to neat up your surroundings when you're swimming in "stuff"?

My motivation is my kids.  I want them to have friends over and not be horrified at the clutter.  At the same time, they are their father's sons - they walk past boxes and other items that need to be taken elsewhere and apparently think their Fairy Godmother will waive her magic wand to move them.  I have come to the sad realization the only way this home will be decluttered and organized is through my efforts and direction. 

And when that lightbulb was lit, I got a little pissed off.  Do you know how much time and energy I've wasted being upset that no one would help me, at asking, yelling, cajoling the others to join in?

So, do you have help, or is it all on you?  And what motivates you?

Saturday, January 21, 2012

Looking For Advice

If you are an Organized Wannabe like me, then catalogs from loverly companies like The Container Store and Ikea feed your addiction.  Even the weekly Target ad in January, when all their “Time to Get It Together” stuff is on sale, works in a pinch.

I’ve spent money on containerizing and labeling the kids’ toys and items I need to store, like clothes for the youngest to grow into or which bins have Christmas decorations versus camping stuff in our cellar.  I’ve read every magazine and book about how to find that balance of having an organized home but not having it feel like a sterile prison cell.  I’ve watched “Hoarders” (amazing how many of them have neat piles of things, even though they are blocking exits) and “Storage Wars” (featuring people who’ve had so much stuff they’ve had to rent more space, and then have run out of money to pay for the rental fees).

Here’s what I’ve gleaned from all that research:
  • Get rid of stuff.  Or save things.
  • Have multiples of everything in every room, like mini-offices.  Or get rid of multiple items.
  • Buy pretty containers to store your extra stuff.  Or repurpose what you have on hand.
  • Use a simple folder system.  Or an intricate one.  Or don’t use a folder system - use binders, or an expanding accordian file.
  • Scan all your paper.  Or store all your paper.
  • Save all your tax returns.  Or throw out all but the last seven years of returns.  Or three, depending on what returns you filed.
  • Use an electronic planner.  Or a paper planner.  Since there’s so few of either to choose from, that should be easy, right (yes, that was typed with extreme sarcasm – any one item that has its own aisle at Staples deserves it).
  • Put all your important documents in a safety deposit box at your bank.  Or in a fireproof box in your house. 
Confusing, right?  I was spending more time trying to figure out which advice, which route, would lead me to the Organized Home of my dreams than doing the actual decluttering and organizing that would get me to Nirvana.  So I stopped trying to follow all the conflicting expert opinions, take some time, and find out what really will work for ME.  Because last time I checked, none of those experts have stormed my house to do it for me.  Where the hell is Peter Walsh when I need him?
 
Is there one organizational expert whose advice works better for you than the others?  And how does their advice work for you?